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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: CindyC on November 19, 2018, 05:05:01 PM



Title: New to Group
Post by: CindyC on November 19, 2018, 05:05:01 PM
Hello,

I am new to this group and Just found out/figured out that my adult child is Borderline. I'm here to learn all I can to help myself and him.  He is a new father.  I need help!


Title: Re: New to Group
Post by: Merlot on November 19, 2018, 06:08:01 PM
Hi Cindyc

Welcome to the bpdfamily  :hi:

Im sorry that you are going through a difficult time.

You mention that your son is a young father and that you need some help. Are you able to share a little more of what is going on for you both.

You are in a great place with the bpdfamily. We are here to suppprt you through your journey.

I came here 10 months ago in crisis with my DD27 and have not looked back as I continue to learn from wonderful parents and move through the highs and lows of BPD.

The best bit of advice I received early on was to step back out of the drama and to look after myself, and not to take it personally. I also read Stop Walking on Egg shells by Randi Kreger. It validated my world.

I hope to hear from you soon.

Merlot