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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: PianoDood on November 21, 2018, 06:35:26 PM



Title: UBPD wife just texted and said she would text tonight
Post by: PianoDood on November 21, 2018, 06:35:26 PM
My wife, just discarded 7 days ago, just texted me and said after she sits down tonight she's going to text me. I can't even tell you the kind of anxiety I feel. I don't know whether she's just searching for a fix, going to truly explain to me that she is truly divorcing me or wants to talk about the relationship. I have no idea.


Title: Re: UBPD wife just texted and said she would text tonight
Post by: once removed on November 21, 2018, 09:36:31 PM
i noticed that in your time here, the two of you have reconciled many times, but youve never posted on the Bettering board, where you can learn tools, get a plan, feedback, real support in navigating. if there is talk of reconciling the relationship, even a 5% chance, i hope youll take that initiative. "nothing changes without changes".

in any event, keep us posted, let us know how it goes. we are here to support you in whatever happens.


Title: Re: UBPD wife just texted and said she would text tonight
Post by: PianoDood on November 21, 2018, 09:55:53 PM
Agreed