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Title: NC during holidays Post by: zeus123 on November 23, 2018, 11:49:43 AM Please don't fall prey to your BPD sending you holiday wishes. Yes, I know it's tempting to hit that ball back across the net, and you feel "guilty" if ya don't... .
But no good comes from it. NO REPLY sends the correct, appropriate message: you abused me and you're dead to me now. ANY attention from you literally sanctions how badly they treated you. For them , it's a PROOF you've accepted the abuse they dished out and have forgotten it, which isn't all true for you! More contact with someone who's harmed you, is literally SELF-betrayal. Title: Re: NC during holidays Post by: Baglady on November 23, 2018, 02:48:25 PM Wholeheartedly agree Z,
Unfortunately, I have to co-parent with my exBPDh :( I'd give anything to be able to just walk away and never set eyes or have any type of communication with him again so I strongly encourage those who have that option to take full advantage of it! Warmly, B Title: Re: NC during holidays Post by: Turkish on November 23, 2018, 09:46:47 PM 6 years out, she married the guy she left me for, and I still get birthday texts. I also coparent. My BIFF reply is "thanks."
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