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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: lookslikeaduck on November 27, 2018, 09:14:36 AM



Title: I've tried no contact, threat of police. She obeys no boundary I put up
Post by: lookslikeaduck on November 27, 2018, 09:14:36 AM
To clarify, I am done, but I know she hasn't quit. I'll have other questions on how to end this on her side. I've tried no contact, threat of police. She obeys no boundary I put up, does not process the negative feelings.  


Title: Re: I've tried no contact, threat of police. She obeys no boundary I put up
Post by: Skip on November 27, 2018, 10:16:24 AM
She was amazing and awful. I am trying to gain perspective... .

Can you give us a thumbnail sketch of the relationship? Ages, length, live-in, kids, great things, worse things... .

Let's dig in!

Welcome lookslikeaduck!


Title: Re: I've tried no contact, threat of police. She obeys no boundary I put up
Post by: once removed on November 27, 2018, 12:30:34 PM
did you initiate the breakup?

what medium is she reaching out on, text, email, phone, in person?


Title: Re: I've tried no contact, threat of police. She obeys no boundary I put up
Post by: CryWolf on December 01, 2018, 02:32:49 AM
I think skip and once removed asked some solid questions about the relationship. Feel free to share so we may better understand and help 

Hope you’re doing well the last few days buddy


Title: Re: I've tried no contact, threat of police. She obeys no boundary I put up
Post by: CryWolf on December 13, 2018, 09:19:36 AM
How have things been duck?


Title: Re: I've tried no contact, threat of police. She obeys no boundary I put up
Post by: Mutt on December 18, 2018, 09:26:24 AM
Hi lookslikeaduck,

I've tried no contact, threat of police. She obeys no boundary I put up, does not process the negative feelings.  

Previous poster asked about how you two stay in touch, how does she break NC? Are you saying that you ask her to not contact you and she'll break that boundary? Would like to hear more.