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Title: BPD ex keeps contacting me from time to time + feeling insecure. Post by: Christine15 on December 05, 2018, 03:37:16 AM Hello.
I was in a relationship with a guy suffering from BPD for 2 months ( He said he saw me 7 months before aka the relationship has strated in his head at that time) I knew he had BPD after deciding to breakup ( I was so tired emotionally). I didn't contact him at all after breaking up ( The breakup was with no direct contact ... I just left and told his friend so that he won't be alone). Right after he knew i broke up with him , he came to my house because i wouldn't answer the phone ( Living with my parents ). I saw him 2 times with friends but we didn't talk or even say hi. Sometimes he calls in the middle of the night and i never respond. I blocked him everywhere in social media. The problem is that i feel a little bit insecure about myself. Everytime the door rings , i say it is him. How can i get over that feeling ? Thank you. Title: Re: BPD ex keeps contacting me from time to time + feeling insecure. Post by: once removed on December 05, 2018, 05:28:51 PM hi Christine15 and *welcome*
to give us a clearer impression, can you tell us a bit more about what/why led you to break up with him, and how long it has been since the breakup? Title: Re: BPD ex keeps contacting me from time to time + feeling insecure. Post by: Mutt on December 09, 2018, 06:40:07 PM Hi Christine15,
Can you tell us a little bit more about the BPD behaviours? To answer your question it sounds like maybe you didn't get closure or grieve the r/s do you still have feelings for him? |