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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: 5min on December 11, 2018, 09:48:50 AM



Title: How do you stop the hitting?
Post by: 5min on December 11, 2018, 09:48:50 AM
This is an excerpt from another member's topic:

Stepping away from the "stay or go" question for a minute... .

"Putting my foot down for the millionth time. Is this a healthy approach?" ~ Spam591

You live with her. She hits you. Focus in and solve this problem first.

Why?

Because its dangerous.
Because if you can't resolve a black and white issue like this, the two of you can't resolve anything.
Because it will teach you how to solve more complex problems with her.

Do you want to talk about how to approach that?
 

So, how do you do this?