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Title: How she tries to reconnect Post by: Dunder on December 26, 2018, 10:03:17 AM My ex is now down to sending me a single sentence love note every 6 months or so. I got one last night: “I’ve never stopped loving you for one day.” Does anybody’s other ex send little notes like this out of the blue?
Title: Re: How she tries to reconnect Post by: Red5 on December 26, 2018, 11:32:28 AM My ex is now down to sending me a single sentence love note every 6 months or so. I got one last night: “I’ve never stopped loving you for one day.” Does anybody’s other ex send little notes like this out of the blue? Hello Dunder, Out of curiosity, is she sending you a text message or is this an actual paper card, or letter; note through the mail? Just curious, Kind regards, Red5 Title: Re: How she tries to reconnect Post by: Dunder on December 26, 2018, 02:06:56 PM Hello Dunder, Out of curiosity, is she sending you a text message or is this an actual paper card, or letter; note through the mail? Just curious, Kind regards, Red5 Hi Red5, They are email messages. Title: Re: How she tries to reconnect Post by: Red5 on December 26, 2018, 02:25:33 PM Hi Red5, They are email messages. Hmmm, six month interval, .maybe she is trying to see if you are still available to her. I’ve read a lot about how we are “supply”, and the pw/BPD-npd must ensure that if they can’t move forward then maybe they can “move backwards” as in re-enter our lives again. Which to me is possibly destructive to us. My first wife... .about a year after the divorce was final, she calls me out of the blue... .in tears... .and says to me “you were right about me all along”... . I asked her if she was alright and if she was in any danger... .and suggested that she call her sister... . I did not ever hear from her again until another year had passed and she wanted to see the kids... .who were now all teenagers by this time . That was about twelve years ago now. I guess they feel like we do sometimes... .and feel the need or urge to reach out to us... .especially if things are not going well for them... . Red5 |