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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Parent, Sibling, or In-law Suffering from BPD => Topic started by: SneakersOtoole on January 01, 2019, 08:57:26 AM



Title: I need guidance
Post by: SneakersOtoole on January 01, 2019, 08:57:26 AM
My life is a living Hell. A true nightmare of which I can't wake from.
If I leave which I have, she becomes worse. It doesn't matter I'm not there to experience the disfunction. It makes things worse with stress and anxiety.
I need some type of facility that is not a hospital setting. She belongs with similar issues, not with recovering 20 year old Heroin addicts. And one that isnt 800 to 1800 dollars a day.


Title: Re: I need guidance
Post by: Harri on January 01, 2019, 11:01:59 AM
Hi.  I am glad you posted and are reaching out for help.

Can you tell us more about your situation?  Who is your pwBPD (person with BPD)?  Daughter?

Please share more so we can better guide you.

In the meantime, take a look around, settle in and read and post as you feel.


Title: Re: I need guidance
Post by: JNChell on January 01, 2019, 07:34:14 PM
Hello, SneakersOtoole. It sounds like you’re very emotionally charged. It’s ok to feel that way. More importantly, it’s necessary to be collected to process things in a way that are good for us. Know what I mean?

Who are you talking about here and what is the latest occurrence that has you upset? If you’re ok with it, let’s settle into a place where we can work from. Are you good with that?