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Title: BPD sister has 'abducted" BPD mother and endad to her place 5 hours away Post by: yamada on February 01, 2019, 12:40:18 AM BPD sister has 'abducted" BPD mother and endad to her place 5 hours away. Interesting to see BPD sis swap power manipulation roles with Mother now the mother has dementia.
Parents wanted to talk to me and despite sister being told to never ring me nor email me she rang me. started conversation in a hostile tone. I didn't answer. She said "Are you there?" I said you are not to call me. you are supposed to call my husband. And hung up. I am feeling great. the trick in our family was always to use an emotional blackmail excuse to break the ice. Not this time. Hub sent her a text saying all information goes to me and I am not involved in the fight. He has found out she has been trying to use my adult offspring as middle man. He isnt amused. Title: Re: boundaries Post by: Harri on February 01, 2019, 09:13:15 AM Hi yamada.
It is frustrating when they won't respect our requests isn't it? But you and your husband took action to enforce your boundary which is really the only thing you can do. How is your sister trying to use your kids? Title: Re: BPD sister has 'abducted" BPD mother and endad to her place 5 hours away Post by: yamada on February 01, 2019, 07:19:58 PM As the middle men between us or she updates them about my parents thinking they will tell me but they dont. I have asked them to refer my sister to my husband
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