|
Title: Realizations Post by: heysohokid on February 25, 2019, 10:37:19 AM Hi everyone,
I have recently discovered that my dad has BPD. Well, more that my therapist realized it and then the lightbulbs and life explanations and reasonings flooded me like a tsunami. I still live at home. I love my dad, but I'm not sure how to keep things healthy while still being at home and while still having a good relationship... .well, attempting to have a good relationship. Title: Re: Realizations Post by: once removed on February 25, 2019, 11:15:28 AM hi heysohokid, and *welcome*
i remember my lightbulb moment about BPD! theres a powerful sense of relief that comes with it, and then, as you describe, its kind of like watching a movie (an exceptionally long one) over again through a completely new lens. and then... ."so whats next". so whats going on between you and your dad right now? Title: Re: Realizations Post by: Turkish on February 25, 2019, 08:15:30 PM What do you see as unhealthy? Is your mother also in the home?
|