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Title: Would like to find Mirror Examples Post by: Skye Byer on March 09, 2019, 06:33:34 AM I've read SWOE (just finished it this week). I'm re-reading it to better understand Sponge (I've been) and mirror (I'm not yet). I'm not sure how to be a mirror. I've been dealing with someone that I believe has BPD traits for 14 years.
I'm just starting to use this site. I'm sure what I'm looking for is already there. Thanks for your help. Title: Re: Would like to find Mirror Examples Post by: FaithHopeLove on March 09, 2019, 08:20:29 AM Hi SB
It is good to meet you although I am sorry for what brings you here. SWOES is a great book that helped me understand my relationship with my BPD son. Who in your life has BPD? Was it diagnosed ? What would mirroring look like for you? Title: Re: Would like to find Mirror Examples Post by: Harri on March 09, 2019, 07:11:40 PM Hi and welcome!
Can you give us examples of when you were a sponge so we can help you see how to turn that around? It is hard to give examples without some details. In the meantime, I hope you feel free to read and jump into other posts. Having a support network is important and we all understand here. Many of us probably share the same struggles. |