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Hi everyone,

Again it is a while since my last post. Lately I'm so tired that I can only do my work, do some sporting activities and do what's need te be done in the divorce.

Who have read the post I put on here, know that we where in parenting mediation. This is on-hold now, because of insurmountable difference and because my STBEx accussed supervisors to be baised. Which of course they aren't, but when you say something else then she does you are a lair or baised.

At first it felt as a pity, but if you look at it honestly it was doomed to fail from the beginning. She is not able to make compromisses. So that's done now and we can but this behind us.

Also my parents and brother are nog longer suspect of het claims that they sexually abused our son. Which of course they never did. But it is nice to know the police believes us. Now I'm busy getting the court order be withdrawn so I can go to them again with my son.

Furthermore the situation is now that Safe Home is doing a investigation which will probably take another couple of weeks. Parenting mediation wants child protection in our case.

So again we our surrounded with organisation that say that they want to help and hopefully this time they do. But all this has a bright site to. I'm seeing the end of the tunnel for our divorce. When Safe Home is finished, then maybe child protection will start. When they have finished there investigation, then there is no longer a organisation to go too. Then all investigations are over and we can go to court. We both make our best case and then it is up to the judge. After that the divorce is final.

I know it will not be the end, but maybe then I can start to move on and maybe become a little less tired.

Thanks for listening.

Greetings,

LovingDad

That is excellent news that the authorities can see that you are doing nothing wrong.

It sounds as if you are doing the right things - attempting to follow the processes and doing what is best for your son.