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Title: Feeling overwhelmed; Social Services gave BPD daughter's kids to us to raise Post by: Edmonton2019 on April 25, 2019, 09:36:52 AM My daughter (BPD) had a stroke 3 yrs ago, since then she has lost control of her BPD and her life. Social services has stepped in and taken her children and given them to us to raise. My husband (now retired) and I are now raising a 3 and 5 yr old and our lives have changed from travel and retirement to dealing with life. Feeling overwhelmed, and don't know where to get support. Hoping it's here.
:help: Title: Re: Trying to survive Post by: hope2727 on April 25, 2019, 10:26:45 AM Hey Edmonton. You have found a good place here. You are not alone. There are some amazing people with some amazing support on these boards. Please keep posting and please keep reading. I am sorry you are enduring this huge challenge but you are stronger than you know. I totally get how hard it is to love someone with BPD. It is so important to take good care of yourself. Do you have a good therapist for support? Do you have an extended family for help? Can you tell us more details about your situation?
I hope to hear more about your story. Until then sending hugs. Title: Re: Trying to survive Post by: GaGrl on April 25, 2019, 10:32:55 AM What is you BPD daughter's living situation? Is she in the house with you and the children? Or is she in a separate house or facility?
Title: Re: Feeling overwhelmed; Social Services gave BPD daughter's kids to us to raise Post by: Only Human on April 25, 2019, 12:34:53 PM Hi Edmonton2015 :hi:
I join the others in welcoming you to bpdfamily. As hope2727 says, you've come to a great place for support as you navigate this new life of yours. You will find others here who are in similar situations and it helps to talk about it. Gagrl asks some good questions - please share a little more with us as it helps us to know how to best support you. Meanwhile, know that we are walking with you, you don't have to do this alone. Again, Welcome! ~ OH Title: Re: Trying to survive Post by: GaGrl on April 25, 2019, 01:23:06 PM What is you BPD daughter's living situation? Is she in the house with you and the children? Or is she in a separate house or facility? And is the children's father involved? Title: Re: Trying to survive Post by: wendydarling on April 25, 2019, 01:43:13 PM Hello Edmonton
I too welcome you. Excerpt Feeling overwhelmed, and don't know where to get support. Hoping it's here. It is here, Edmonton we're here for you, you are not alone. What is your greatest challenge at this time? I'm a short, long in my head way off retirement age, no grandchildren. I can understand how this has floored you, it is overwhelming. I also want to share with you there is a community of people and parents (virtual and personally) you'll meet on the way that'll lift you up and help you and your husband take time out and spend this precious time together and yes travel! WDx |