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Title: When do I know there can be no more? Post by: lonely38 on May 01, 2019, 01:09:09 PM In need of advice with regard to my 61 year old BPD husband whom I have been married to for 39 years. It feels like he has gone downhill mentally and emotionally for the last year and a half. As he has shared with me that is very depressed, I can certainly see that is part of what is going on.
He is pointing the finger to me for pretty much everything. I have been struggling to create boundaries with his emotional and verbal abuse. I have told him this is what I am experiencing. His words to me are that I have created a narrative or my own reality with regard to abuse. He says he is not abusive toward me. He says that I am off mentally and emotionally. He says the only way we can turn things around in our marriage at this point is for me to let go of the 'narrative' that I have been abused by him. He says he can see that I am stressed but this is all me and not him. I have tried everything I can think of to do and am running out of ideas. His words are so far from reality. If it were not so sad, it would be funny. I am running on fumes at this point... |