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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: MomSA on June 06, 2019, 02:35:21 AM



Title: Ways to escalate situations where words have to be spoken
Post by: MomSA on June 06, 2019, 02:35:21 AM
Please can you share examples of how you de-escalate situations where you simply have to say what needs to be said. Do you just say it and let the chips fall where they may?


Title: Re: Ways to escalate situations where words have to be spoken
Post by: sweetheart on June 06, 2019, 02:16:14 PM

Can you perhaps give some examples of recurring conflicts that come up for you?


Title: Re: Ways to escalate situations where words have to be spoken
Post by: MomSA on June 07, 2019, 09:45:19 AM
Asking him to do anything
Redirecting him or his thoughts about our BPD daughter
When he's yelling or lecturing a child unkindly
When a joint expense needs paying
When I want to buy something not approved by him
Examples...could ask anything.