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Title: In the midst of ending a 6 year relationship , with my BPD girlfriend Post by: Bklyn65 on June 16, 2019, 06:57:29 PM I am in the midst of ending a 6 year relationship with my BP girlfriend. I no longer want to live in this nightmare.
I finally faced the fact, she has a mental illness, that will not go away. I’m tired of her lies, her shifting blame, her verbal abuse. I’m tired of feeling like I am losing my mind, tired of doubting my own sanity, tired of feeling guilty for things that she perceives to be true , but isn't reality. Tired of suppressing my feelings, so she will not spin out of control. I am looking for validation, to hear from people who have gone through, or is going through a similar situation . Im just tired of doubting my own sanity. It would be nice to know I’m not alone Title: Re: In the midst of ending a 6 year relationship , with my BPD girlfriend Post by: once removed on June 17, 2019, 05:34:42 PM hi Bklyn65, and *welcome*
you do sound exhausted. have you broken the news to her, or discussed it with friends or family? Title: Re: In the midst of ending a 6 year relationship , with my BPD girlfriend Post by: cbalzly on June 27, 2019, 02:47:34 PM I just ended a three year relationship, although due to a side a small side business there is still communication and I am realizing I may not want to do that anymore either. My peace needs to be priority. Does you SO know you are leaving yet?
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