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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Parent, Sibling, or In-law Suffering from BPD => Topic started by: Bluethings on July 01, 2019, 11:50:30 AM



Title: Newbie feeling lost sad and upset
Post by: Bluethings on July 01, 2019, 11:50:30 AM
So long story short ..
I was abused and neglected as a child and teen . However now as a an adult I have been diagnosed with bpd .. like I’m So ashamed  that I have this issue and sad because of what I went through to get it .. on top of this other stuff . Feeling really  PLEASE READ (https://bpdfamily.com/safe-site.htm)ty , had I had a better childhood this could have been prevented possibly . How do I cope with this no one understands and thinks all I want is attention which is so far from the truth 
Thanks for reading ,
Blue things 


Title: Re: Newbie feeling lost sad and upset
Post by: Harri on July 01, 2019, 12:31:54 PM
I am very sorry to hear that things are so difficult for you right now, but it is great to see you reaching out for help and support - a very brave and scary thing to do!

This site is a support group for those who are or were in a relationship with a person with BPD, so many of the posts can be triggering to a BPD sufferer. There are resources of the type you're seeking. Please check out Resources for BPD Sufferers (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/Themes/default/welcome3.html).

That said, if you want to explore your childhood abuse we do have a parent, Sibling and In-Law board that is open for those members who want to work on their relationship with a person with BPD (pwBPD). 


Title: Re: Newbie feeling lost sad and upset
Post by: Maya L on July 01, 2019, 01:13:19 PM
All the love to you! I hope that you can find some help to feel better. It is such a benefit that you are looking for support.