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Title: The days are here when I finally don't think of him as much
Post by: Tsultan on August 06, 2019, 07:30:09 PM
I couldn't wait to be able to say this...

Today I was walking along the canal and realized that I don't think of my exUBPDbf as much as I used to.  I said to myself "finally"!   

This thought was worth a post. 

Amen


Title: Re: The days are here when I finally don't think of him as much
Post by: I Am Redeemed on August 06, 2019, 07:36:26 PM
Hi Tsultan, and congrats on reaching this point 

I remember when my wedding anniversary came this past year, and I didn't even realize what day it was for three whole hours after I woke up  That was worth a post to me because it felt huge.

It's definitely a confidence-booster when you realize that there actually is some progress being made! I hope it gets even better for you from here 


Title: Re: The days are here when I finally don't think of him as much
Post by: Lucky Jim on August 07, 2019, 10:13:04 AM
Great news, Tsultan!  Keep up the good work.  I'm here to confirm that it's possible to find greater happiness in the aftermath of a BPD r/s.  That's what it's all about, right?

LJ


Title: Re: The days are here when I finally don't think of him as much
Post by: Tsultan on August 07, 2019, 07:17:23 PM
Lucky Jim, Yes! Greater happiness - I like that. That is what it's all about.  And I have it finally again. 

I'm doing okay.  Starting to feel good again.

Thanks for responding.   




Title: Re: The days are here when I finally don't think of him as much
Post by: Tsultan on August 07, 2019, 07:20:09 PM
Thank you I am redeemed!  That must have been a great feeling!  I think I remember reading your post that day.  

Yes confidence booster is a great way to put it.  Finally making progress!  

 


Title: Re: The days are here when I finally don't think of him as much
Post by: Ecan on August 07, 2019, 08:43:27 PM
                  
Tsultan
I want to add to the congratulations!
I am happy for you!
I hope you keep having more  times to say FINALLY!


Title: Re: The days are here when I finally don't think of him as much
Post by: Tsultan on August 08, 2019, 08:39:13 PM
Ecan,  Thank you!