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Title: I am wondering if this is the start of a recycle Post by: RomanticFool on August 13, 2019, 08:01:50 AM I have to be honest and say since I surprisingly heard from her last night, I am wondering if this is the start of a recycle or whether she was just being polite.
I think if I pursued her, assuming she hasn’t met somebody else, I might be able to get her to either talk or meet. I miss her terribly but even I am struggling with the idea of reconnecting. As painful as this break up is and as much as I want her, nothing would change. She ended it because it was too toxic (her words) and her 17 year old daughter was frightened at our combustibility. My ex saw this as a deeply negative development in the relationship because prior to that she had liked seeing her mother in love. Since it was her mother who shouted at me and attacked me I felt a little aggrieved at being blamed. However, had I handled it better, I may have been able to turn it around. I guess that goes for the whole relationship. My own push/pull behaviour made everything worse. I haven’t replied to her one sentence email. I don’t know what to say. She still has me blocked on WhatsApp and she hadn’t spoken to me for two weeks. It seems completely hopeless. Yet, she didn’t let the anniversary day go by without a comment. Title: Re: I am wondering if this is the start of a recycle Post by: Radcliff on August 14, 2019, 01:04:13 AM What did her e-mail say?
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