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Title: New and trying to find out ways to communicate more effectively with my fiancee Post by: Hope4change1 on August 23, 2019, 07:12:30 PM Hi, new here & recently found out my fiance was diagnosed with BPD as a teenager. Trying to find out ways to communicate more effectively with him. What works, what doesn't? Also is it possible to have a loving healthy relationship with a partner with BPD? Does the non BPD ever feel truly validated or loved?
Title: Re: First timer Post by: Radcliff on August 25, 2019, 12:47:36 AM *welcome*
BPD relationships can be tough, and the "non" typically needs a lot of support, so it's great that you've taken the step of reaching out for help here. For a start, read this page on What Does It Take To Be In a BPD Relationship? (https://bpdfamily.com/content/what-does-it-take-be-relationship) Can you tell us a little bit more about your relationships highs and lows? Have you set a wedding date? RC |