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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Stayinprayer12 on August 23, 2019, 08:28:43 PM



Title: I feel defeated
Post by: Stayinprayer12 on August 23, 2019, 08:28:43 PM
For a long time I couldn't figure it, until my therapist defined it for me. He's abusive, mercurial, and indecisive. Everything is my fault regardless of what it pertains to. He ruins everything, vacations, dinner, outings, conversations, and takes every opportunity to devalue me.
There are times I hate him. I want to feel sorry for him but it's so hard. I'm at my wits end.


Title: Re: I feel defeated
Post by: Radcliff on August 25, 2019, 12:40:25 AM
*welcome*
Your experiences have a lot in common with those of other members.  Can you tell us more about your day-to-day difficulties?  How long have you been together?

RC