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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Fuengirola on September 08, 2019, 04:17:16 AM



Title: Stay or leave
Post by: Fuengirola on September 08, 2019, 04:17:16 AM
I just find out my partner is diagnosed with NPD and BPD.
I have been in this relationship over 30 years. We have 2 daughters. I have known that it was difficult for me to set bounderies. I have a narcissistic stephmother.
What is the best way for me to handle this?


Title: Re: Stay or leave
Post by: once removed on September 08, 2019, 04:30:37 AM
hi Fuengirola, and *welcome*

30 years is a long time. a lot invested. likely, a lot of conflict too.

tell us more about your relationship. what led up to your partners diagnosis and how are you both taking it?


Title: Re: Stay or leave
Post by: Radcliff on September 08, 2019, 05:06:47 PM
Let me join once removed in welcoming you.  The answers to the questions he asked will help us support you better.  This is a great community in which to get support and learn.

RC