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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Jetstorm51 on September 16, 2019, 12:19:37 PM



Title: Talking to your significant other after a fight
Post by: Jetstorm51 on September 16, 2019, 12:19:37 PM
Hi everyone,  so yesterday my friend and I had another major fight that was blown out of proportion.  I had to take responsibility for the whole thing even though we were both in the fault.  Today she got upset at me after I didn’t tell her I was taking the week off because of having mono.  She wanted me to tell her last night when she was very upset with me.  She blamed me and said I was giving her crap for acting surprised and caught off guard.  She then said we need some space since we can’t communicate effectively right now.  So I want to resolve this but I have no clue how to do this I feel that anything I say will be used against me or that she is just going to completely throw out our friendship  (as in it’s too much for her to handle and that I’m a bad person).  Thanks!


Title: Re: Talking to your significant other after a fight
Post by: DragoN on September 16, 2019, 12:21:56 PM
Own  your part of it, and leave the rest where it belongs.
Then do nothing. She comes around or not.