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Well things are worse than I thought.  

We saw each other Monday thru Thursday.  

On Wednesday night she decided she wants to give us a try.  Full steam ahead.

I know she was going to see her mom on Friday and be with her Saturday.  

So this is what happened.  

A.  Wednesday told me she wants to work it out.  Said she will contact other guy that it is totally over and she is with me.

B. Thursday and Friday all day she is texting me as if everything is normal.  She said she will call the guy and later tell me about the conversation. This was supposed to happen Friday.   So this is what actually happened.

Friday night I ask her about her day.  She is talking like everything is normal.   I then ask about how the conversation went.  She said it’s over, and will talk to me in person.  Zero details.  

Saturday night she is a mess.  She took a pregnancy test Thursday night and it showed pregnant.  (Never told me).  And it can’t be mine.  

So what she did Friday was have the guy come to her apartment and tell him she is pregnant.  He wants nothing to do with it.   It would be the second abortion with the same guy.

So Saturday she calls me crying.  Losing her mind.  Upset that this “horrible guy” does not want her baby.  And she told him nothing about me and her.

Then she takes another test and it is “not pregnant”.  So then she is relieved.  

The scary part is how she held all this in all weekend, lied to me , lied to him, and had ZERO. Empathy towards me.  She wanted me to feel sorry for her that this other man did not want a baby with her.