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Title: If a really good pic (memory) of your SO and you shows up on FB, Share?
Post by: gadget on September 17, 2019, 08:07:18 AM
I had a great pic of my wife and I show up on my FB memories from 3 years ago.  Do you all share these things?  Does it matter?  It is a great memory of us going out to dinner.  I'm sure part of me wants her to remember that too.

Gadget


Title: Re: If a really good pic (memory) of your SO and you shows up on FB, Share?
Post by: Stillhopeful4 on September 17, 2019, 08:43:51 AM
Hi Gadget,

That happens all the time with me.  I use to share them with her but then she told me to stop and that she usually sees them come up for her anyway and that it hurts her too much.  She said she doesn't want me to "rub it in her face, what we use to have".  I don't share them anymore, because I'm trying not to make her upset, however, my profile picture is one of her and I and I'm not planning on changing that anytime soon.

Hope you are doing well (PS how was yoga?)

SH4


Title: Re: If a really good pic (memory) of your SO and you shows up on FB, Share?
Post by: Birddog on September 17, 2019, 01:42:48 PM
 :caution:


Title: Re: If a really good pic (memory) of your SO and you shows up on FB, Share?
Post by: SadtimesAZ on September 17, 2019, 02:30:25 PM
I saved everything separately and deleted it from Facebook. No pictures of her anywhere. She prefers to deny our relationship ever existed.


Title: Re: If a really good pic (memory) of your SO and you shows up on FB, Share?
Post by: gadget on September 17, 2019, 04:28:41 PM
Hi SH4!

Yea.  I didn't share it after I read what you posted.  She probably saw it on her feed to.  I also have an AMAZING fb profile pic of me and my wife I haven't changed and won't.  My co-worker friends keep saying I should.  But nope!  My wife is SO beautiful.

Yoga was great!  Looking forward to more.

Birddog and Sadtimes, thanks for your input and warnings.  I did not share it.  Really wanted to.  Really want her to miss us.

Gadget


Title: Re: If a really good pic (memory) of your SO and you shows up on FB, Share?
Post by: Stillhopeful4 on September 18, 2019, 11:00:44 AM
Hi SH4!

Yea.  I didn't share it after I read what you posted.  She probably saw it on her feed to.  I also have an AMAZING fb profile pic of me and my wife I haven't changed and won't.  My co-worker friends keep saying I should.  But nope!  My wife is SO beautiful.

Yoga was great!  Looking forward to more.


That's probably a good thing that you didn't share.  Depending on her state of mind when you sent it would probably depend on her reaction and to get a bad one wouldn't be good for you.

Glad you liked Yoga.  I'm starting back up again next month!  I can't wait!

Take care,
SH4