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Title: Cross posting
Post by: yeeter on November 22, 2019, 10:44:07 AM
Had been a while so couldn't remember all the appropriate topics.

But after xxx years, am finally starting the divorce process.  It will not be sane.

My kids are now d11, d13, and s15 and I believe in a better place to handle it than when I first found this site.

I have learned so much here, and will need that much and more going forward

More to come.


Title: Re: Cross posting
Post by: confusedbybdp on November 22, 2019, 10:14:57 PM
 :hi:

Hi yeeter,

Just a quick "hello," to let you know we're listening.  For various reasons, including the fact that my training is in law, I recently have been googling "BPD and the law."  There is fascinating information on the web regarding this topic and many sub-topics, and some of it may be helpful to you.  The buzz words seem to be "high conflict divorce."  One of the leading writers in this field is a fellow by the last name of Eddy, I believe, who is not only a lawyer and mediator, but also a licensed clinical social worker.  I came across of number of articles by Eddy and others about the rising number of family law cases (divorces and child custody) in which one (or more rarely, both) parties have a personality disorder.  Understandably, this complicates resolution of these matters exponentially.  Apparently, there are many lawyers and law firms that appear to specialize in handling "high conflict" cases. 

All the best...   :hug:


Title: Re: Cross posting
Post by: yeeter on November 23, 2019, 08:37:06 AM
Thank you confused, this is very helpful!

 :hug: