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So, long story made short. Me and my bpd ex went back and fourth out off contact and sleeping togethere everynow and then since June, till about last month. I were invited over too a party at her hometown by her cousin and a couple off her friends. I sent her a message asking if she would be okay with me attending. She said yes. And actually seemed happy we were meeting up again. I went there, didnt really interact alot with her cuz she was with some other guy. I got sad, and one off her "friends" tried to make me feel better. The Next day i get the most nasty text ive ever gotten, from my ex. Telling me all sort of nasty things. And i was blocked, w-out a chance too reply. Today i sent her a long text, i know i probably shouldnt have, bit i needed to get it out off my system. I am trying to get my girlffiend back, i love her. More than anything. And would love for us to get back into contact. I said in my message that if she wanted to have contact in the future, and Try to atleast establish a friendship that all she had to do was ask. I didnt really expect a reply. Atleast not in a white. Bit arter 20 minutes she just answered: "Thanks for the message

I guess my question here is what do i do now? All off u are prob gonna tell me to wait and see if she makes anymore contact in the future(?) I am still blocked on Facebook. Sent her the message via phone. I didnt really expect a reply, atleast not for awhile. Iguess this is good right?

I got ghosted/blocked basically everywhere around october last year after the best few weeks we've had during our two years on-off.

She unblocked me sometime before halloween this year can't know for sure when exactly, noticed because I was looking through halloween pictures and her name came up in search, which shouldn't when you're blocked, so I clicked and to my surprise, not blocked; also not "added", but not blocked.

She messaged me just last week, about a year after she cut all contact.

My point is, wait if you want/need to, just don't hold your breath over it.

She might be having second thoughts about having blocked you so suddenly, or maybe she's answering to get you a non-answer but still answer for whatever reason (calm you down, keep the bridge unburned without committing to it?)

You know her better, given the on-off I imagine this or something similar has happened before. How'd you guys resume contact/interaction/the relationship after past breakdowns?

We have been in and out off contact a couple times yes. And this is not the first time ive been blocked. Has never gone so long w-out contact before tough. Before when things have gone south we usually just text eachother after a week or two and we talk it out. Last time she was the one to reach out. I hate this, i feel completly empty. I had hopes that i would be unblocked bynow,, but all i "got" was thanks for the message. And then silence... I guess its time to giveup:(, give HER up, no matter how much i love her.