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Title: We moved back in together Post by: LoneRanger307 on December 07, 2019, 02:59:25 PM I haven't been on these forums in quite a while. I just wanted to give a little updated that me and my husband have moved back in together. I'm feeling positive and hopeful about it. Things aren't perfect. The planning process leading up to the move was very stressful. But we've been living together again for a week and overall I think it is going very good. I think we are both being mindful about our communication patterns and trying to be respectful to each other while each asserting our personal needs. For me, there is a great pressure relief in having more of his direct help with parenting. Our kiddo is SOO happy to have her Daddy around every day and some days doesn't want to give me the time of day. There are still conflicts and problems, but I'm very hopeful today.
Title: Re: We moved back in together Post by: PurpleElephant on December 07, 2019, 03:29:56 PM Absolutely wonderful to hear about such a positive development!
It makes me happy, so I can only imagine how good this must feel for you. I would take this new turn of events as the biggest opportunity in your life. Now is your time to shine and to be the best SO your H could wish for. I'm sure you've put a lot of effort in everything already. But keep on going :) Be strong, calm and gentle. Listen good. Don't JADE. You have the opportunity to maintain and control your feelings and emotions. Use that opportunity so you can both benefit from it. And ultimately things might turn out for the better. I'm very happy for you! Don't think you're done. Haven't read your stories, but now it really starts. Shine. Be strong :) |