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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Parker111 on December 08, 2019, 04:25:58 PM



Title: Do pwBPD try to make their partners or friends jealous after devaluing them?
Post by: Parker111 on December 08, 2019, 04:25:58 PM
Why would my male friend with BPD try to make me jealous of his female friend after cutting me off?


Title: Re: Do pwBPD try to make their partners or friends jealous after devaluing them?
Post by: Ozzie101 on December 09, 2019, 08:53:14 AM
Hi Parker! :hi:

It's hard to say. The push-pull dynamic (I love you! Go away!) is a common theme with BPD, often tied to a fear of intimacy combined with fear of abandonment.

How long have you been friends? What precipitated him cutting you off?