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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Jerome Finn on December 12, 2019, 04:48:47 AM



Title: How do you Leave Someone you Don't Think Will be Ok if you Leave?
Post by: Jerome Finn on December 12, 2019, 04:48:47 AM
Subject heading says it all...


Title: Re: How do you Leave Someone you Don't Think Will be Ok if you Leave?
Post by: sweetheart on December 12, 2019, 05:02:04 AM
In what way don’t you think they will be ok?


Title: Re: How do you Leave Someone you Don't Think Will be Ok if you Leave?
Post by: Jerome Finn on December 12, 2019, 08:48:15 PM
She has said many times that I have to die first.  She would have no idea how to do so many things, especially the financial stuff.  I try and show her but she's just not interested.  In general I think she be so overwhelmed and would fall apart and I worry what would happen to her.  I don't think she would do anything drastic but I do think it would be in the realm of possibility.

I meant to post this in the other breaking up message board by the way as this doesn't seem so 'relationship building' to me.