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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Carpediemnow on December 19, 2019, 07:33:49 PM



Title: my Wife shows many traits of bpd
Post by: Carpediemnow on December 19, 2019, 07:33:49 PM
My wife has all the symptoms of bpd. She has never been diagnosed and refuses to get help. On a good day she will acknowledge. On a bad day I am crazy and a million other terrible things. She has left and is proceeding with a seperation agreement. She will change her opinion once the episode passes. I don’t know what to do. Tired of the roller coaster. But I love my wife!


Title: Re: my Wife shows many traits of bpd
Post by: Harri on December 21, 2019, 05:32:05 PM
Hi.

It has been a couple of days, has anything changed?  How long do her episodes typically last?  Can you describe a typical good day vs. bad day? 

Sorry for all the questions.  Details help us get a better handle on your situation so we can support you.

Hope to hear from you soon.



Title: Re: my Wife shows many traits of bpd
Post by: Ozzie101 on December 23, 2019, 09:13:11 AM
Welcome to the family Carpediemnow! :hi:

I'm so sorry for what you're dealing with, but I just wanted to let you know you're not alone. Harri has asked some good questions and I hope you'll answer when you feel up to it!

 :hug: