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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: KAN on February 04, 2020, 12:29:32 PM



Title: tackling emotional outburst
Post by: KAN on February 04, 2020, 12:29:32 PM
worried that s/o other has strong traits of BPD.  We have been struggling to manage relationship for several year now.  there are days when its peaceful and days when there is extreme anger. the  other day she attacked me physically, which has happened many times in the past. When I try to address it 1. she does not acknowledge that she attacked me. 2. she does not remember what she did 3 and accuses me  of hurting her . feels like she is waiting to explode and all she needs is trigger [ it could be something i did or something i did not] . the next days she talks to me as if nothing happened, while it takes days for me to get over it.  while i am trying to recover , she say I am taking too long to talk to her normally.