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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Marie@17 on March 14, 2020, 12:02:36 AM



Title: Border line breakup
Post by: Marie@17 on March 14, 2020, 12:02:36 AM
Searching through the wreckage of a 20+ marriage of the ups and downs of the intensity of strong emotions of marriage and raising children with a BPD.  It hasn't been fun and looking for advice and successes of others who have overcome the possibility of breaking up.  I currently started counseling with someone who understands the tricky disorder.  It definitely is disheartening.  You reach a time when you consider the reality of when to call it quits and hope for a better life for yourself and your children.         


Title: Re: Border line breakup
Post by: once removed on March 14, 2020, 02:06:52 AM
hi marie@17, and *welcome*

20 years is a long time. are you and your husband on the verge of breaking up? what has led things to that point?