Title: I think my co-worker is borderline Post by: melmar838 on March 14, 2020, 12:05:49 AM Hello, I'm new here. I am having a terrible issue at work. Where I once was really liked by my co-workers, now they have almost all turned against me. There is a rumor going around that is hurtful to one person, and word keeps getting around that I'm saying the hurtful thing. I have a new co-worker who I believe is causing other's to harbor hard feelings for me. I'm wondering if this is a common trait. I went from being a well liked and well respected employee of 5 years, to someone who is a gossip and is saying bad things about co-workers. I am not familiar with borderline myself. I personally am co-dependent, and deal with general anxiety and worry.
Title: Re: I think my co-worker is borderline Post by: once removed on March 14, 2020, 02:04:51 AM hi melmar838, and *welcome*
dealing with someone with BPD traits can be a challenge, and the workplace is no exception! whats the backstory here? what happened between you and your coworker? any idea why they might be saying these things? |