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Communicating with ex has died, i dont want to force anything. My head is constantly spinning. I dont know what to do, shall i tell her how i truly feel about her? Or is this stupid? Short summary off our background. We've been boyfriend and girlfriend twice in the last two years. Was blocked from october til new years eve. Didnt really talk much untill about 5 weeks ago. We talked alot for about two weeks, untill a week ago, we havent said a word. She sorta stopped replying to my snapchats. Before this she was the one to iniate contact, mostly. Am i wrong feeling like i wont "try" too stay in touch if she doesnt say anything first. It all stopped so suddenly. I was so happy, so was she. Felt like we were botj genuinly happy too talk too eachother again. Then one day it just stopped. Didnt have a fight, didnt argue. Nothing. I stayed cool and laid back when we talked, even tough my feelings for her are over the top. I love this girl, but i have no idea where too go from here. Do i tell her how i feel? Do i tell her that i find it difficult that for some time were talking alot, then just dead silence. And that i wont try too stay in touch if it feels like she suddenly has no interest for it? My goal is to get back with her. As i say, and you probably understand. She is my everything. And i truly love her. Any feedback and tips would be much appreciated.

hi flangleboi,

when exes reconnect, this is often what happens.

theres a whole lot of contact and catching up first...and then slowly, or quickly, it dies off.

its probably not something you did, but a natural occurrence.

i would not recommend over pursuing or putting your heart on your sleeve here. if you push, shes likely to pull away further.

none of that means you cant or shouldnt reach out! i would just be really careful, and really cool, in how i go about it; something upbeat, fun, attractive, thats likely to pull her in.

anything you have in mind?