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Title: Bdp wife Post by: Keeseville21 on March 24, 2020, 11:04:29 AM My wife and i have been together for almost two years and from everything ive read it was the best feeling of my life...recently are arguements escalated and she asked me to leave it was after a night of drinking by the both of us..we have been married since september we still talk everyday and she tells me she loves me but not in love with me and open ups to me in email about her feelings and yes they are confusing to understand she wants out marriage to work shes trying hard to right the wrongs in her head because i am her husband...her actions done back up her words...there is this guy she is friends with and she refuses to let go of amd says she knows he is toxic to our marriage but dont want to think of why she cant..reassures me i dont have anything to worry about...she is in therapy (dbt)suppose to start a healthy relationship group soon
.i read all i can about the illness but i am a man that likes reassurance and dont like to be kept in limbo she told me the other day she was going to let me come home last monday but i upset her..she understands she is punishing me by keeping me away...i just dont know anymore on how to improve this relationship and im at my wits end i love this woman and i am a empath and a truly loyal person...im lost and feel so worthless that i cant help her anymore than i have |