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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: bpdwife1000 on March 26, 2020, 01:19:22 AM



Title: how can i get help for spouse of bpd
Post by: bpdwife1000 on March 26, 2020, 01:19:22 AM
 I am reaching my breaking point in marriage.
my husband is doing really bad and blaming me again for his bpd and much more

I really need support - I don't like to write a lot of details on a public forum that anyway can go to
is there any other support i can get? (especially when everything has to be virtual)


Title: Re: how can i get help for spouse of bpd
Post by: once removed on April 02, 2020, 04:33:11 AM
I really need support - I don't like to write a lot of details on a public forum that anyway can go to
is there any other support i can get? (especially when everything has to be virtual)

i get the feeling. youre safe here. there are 100000 members, millions of posts, all with overlapping stories. so long as you dont use real names or things that will obviously identify you, you wont be found here.

what is your husband blaming you for?


Title: Re: how can i get help for spouse of bpd
Post by: bpdwife1000 on April 02, 2020, 06:40:20 AM
everything

that we have no relationship   

any issues any kids have

all problems in his life must start with me (including  his bpd)


Title: Re: how can i get help for spouse of bpd
Post by: once removed on April 04, 2020, 01:27:39 AM
what is he saying about these things?

what are you saying?


Title: Re: how can i get help for spouse of bpd
Post by: bpdwife1000 on April 12, 2020, 01:10:14 PM
I usually keep quiet and just tell him I will work on improving myself  (in result to all this criticism of all my problems)