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Title: Transition Post by: Momneedshelp33 on April 12, 2020, 04:29:56 PM My daughter is living with my mother because I kicked her out at 16. Now 6 years later with a trade education we thought she was set. Job, car, place to live. She has since lost all that and lives with my mom again. My mother is elderly and we don't know what to do. She won't take meds, go to therapy, clean, or anything except sleep eat and go hang out with friends with total disregard to my mom's health. I don't know what to do.
Title: Re: Transition Post by: Swimmy55 on April 13, 2020, 03:55:01 PM Hi and welcome to our online community,
It is very frustrating for your daughter to have commandeered your mother's home pretty much to the point where she is running the show. Or rather, her illness is. As you get started here please take a look at the tools and lessons in the upper side of this board. It is unfortunate we can't change our grown BPD's behavior, but all we can do is change our own behavior and how we respond to them. The resources on this website can help with that. Do you fear for your mother's safety- is your daughter violent towards her? |