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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Tamo45 on April 29, 2020, 06:15:51 AM



Title: Can I get the man I married back?
Post by: Tamo45 on April 29, 2020, 06:15:51 AM
Hello

I have been with my husband for 15 years and over the course of our life he has at times been unfaithful I always know the signs and I call him out and it stops.  As of for the past 3 years he has increased in this area and now he is not taking anything I say and ask for .  I have 3 boys with him and I am losing my mind and self at this moment. I know we are all going to need therapy I already have had 2 of my boys in therapy . Can I get the man I married back?


Title: Re: Help
Post by: Naughty Nibbler on May 04, 2020, 03:08:21 PM
Hi  Tamo45:
How are things going?  I'm sorry your post fell down the list unnoticed.

Quote from: Tamo45
over the course of our life he has at times been unfaithful I always know the signs and I call him out and it stops.  As of for the past 3 years he has increased in this area and now he is not taking anything I say and ask for.
  Do you think he has one special person he is cheating with, or several?  What other behavioral issues does he exhibit?

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I already have had 2 of my boys in therapy   
What was the focus/goal of the therapy with your 2 boys?  Did it help?