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Title: Should I wish Happy Mothers Day to an ex UBPD/NPD?
Post by: jumper114 on May 10, 2020, 09:20:26 PM
We are separated 2 years, it has been difficult to disconnect. Adult children are 19,23,26,35,41. Ex is making overatures of reconnecting. I have been grey rock and have no desire to reconnect. Youngest just suggested I send a quick text saying HMD! I think not. Thoughts?


Title: Re: Should I wish Happy Mothers Day to an ex UBPD/NPD?
Post by: GaGrl on May 10, 2020, 10:00:08 PM
We have been in a similar situation. My husband's ex did not react well to our marriage -- the adult children were happy for him. They are 39, 41, 45 now. Since we married 14 years ago, my DH sends a simple text -- "Happy Mother's Day!"

Anything else, even after 15 years, gives her an opening he doesn't want to deal with.


Title: Re: Should I wish Happy Mothers Day to an ex UBPD/NPD?
Post by: GaGrl on May 10, 2020, 11:38:37 PM
Sorry..double post.