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Title: Trouble in an okay paradise
Post by: Min117 on May 17, 2020, 10:50:12 AM
Hello,
This is my first time on here. I’ve never done this before but I guess I was hoping for some guidance. My wife has BPD and it has been extremely difficult in our relationship to hold onto myself. I currently feel so lost and alone, and it seems like she doesn’t even notice. We have been arguing a lot lately  and it has gotten very toxic. I love her and don’t want our relationship to end but I don’t know what else to do.
Please help.


Title: Re: Trouble in an okay paradise
Post by: once removed on May 19, 2020, 03:02:05 AM
hi Min117, and *welcome*

i remember when i found this place, over nine years ago, in the depths of despair. it changed my life.

you do sound exhausted. things can get better.

what are you arguing about lately?