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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: nano on May 23, 2020, 06:03:10 AM



Title: Incarcerated fiancé, affair, break up
Post by: nano on May 23, 2020, 06:03:10 AM
Hi so my fiancé was incarcerated for 15 months up until the 13 month everything was ok. Ive never once thought about or wanted another man and my fiancé and I were going to get married. We have 3 kids from other relationships also. my stepfather passed and I had a history of abuse from his son. within days of stepfather passing his son tells me he is in love with me and has been forever and i feel like i was put under a spell. I was also feeding a substance use problem and this person was my source. but i ended up breaking up with my fiancé after he begged for me to work and get help. I was completely unemotional i said things i would have never said 5 months before. I dont know what happened its like  a fog and now since getting sober I realized i experienced my worst episode and i want my family back as i feel its unfair because my mental health and many more mitigating factors played into it. I take full responsibility for my actions but it just doesn't make sense why i would do that because i love my fiancé with every cell in my body. HELP