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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: Roseglow on June 01, 2020, 04:52:17 PM



Title: new to the group, late to the party
Post by: Roseglow on June 01, 2020, 04:52:17 PM
Hi Friends,
Just joined this group. Where have you been for the last 31 years? My daughter has BP and I can't even talk to her about it without a rage attack.
I know many of you have felt the same way, but I have done everything in my power to help this girl and she always blames, yells, cries screams ad threatens me.
I have read several books on this subject, but really feel I need the support of others who get it. 


Title: Re: new to the group, late to the party
Post by: Harri on June 02, 2020, 03:20:43 PM
Hi and welcome!

We do get it here.  There are many parents who have experienced similar so you definitely are not alone any more.

Can you tell us more about your daughter?  what are some of the behaviors you see that indicate BPD?  what sort of things have you tried when dealing with the behavior?  Sorry for all the questions, it helps to get a better picture of what you are dealing with.  Not just with your daughter, but how you are coping as well.  So when you can, share more with us.  We all work together to help each other cope and we support each other.  things can get better for us.

Again, *welcome*