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Title: my husband is gone Post by: cg on June 05, 2020, 07:15:09 PM My husband abandoned a 30 year marriage with no word or notice. I thought he was dead for a week then was told by the police that he was alive and where he wanted to be. He roamed around Fl an MI for about 6 weeks. Then I received a text at work that he had bought a gun and was going to ill himself. I called 911 and had him hospita;ized. There he was put on meds, diagnosed with bpd and released after 1 week. I was Not wlling to let him back home so he went to his sister 1000 miles away. I am having trouble with forgiving and an almost physical hurt. Any advice on how to stay centered and separate? Divorce seems a foregone conclusion.
Title: Re: my husband is gone Post by: Copycat2018 on June 05, 2020, 11:29:11 PM Hello,
I am very sorry to hear about your situation. I cannot imagine how you are coping. Do you have a support system? How much of a surprise was this? Has he shown signs of distress before? Has he threatened to leave before? What do you make of this episode? |