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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: srntynw on June 29, 2020, 07:16:19 PM



Title: Trying to make it better
Post by: srntynw on June 29, 2020, 07:16:19 PM
I really need help.  I've been with my partner for three years now.  We've been through alot in this small amount of time.  We've lost a child- delivered stillborn, gone through a career change, job changes, school, and constant chaos in our family.  The random anger, blaming, and projecting are honestly tearing us apart.  He used to be my best friend, but I feel like I never really knew him now.  I'm so sick of the lies and manipulation.  I left my abusive ex-husband six years ago.  That relationship almost seemed easier.  I want to try to make it better and stay but I'm worried I'm just hurting myself more.


Title: Re: Trying to make it better
Post by: livednlearned on June 30, 2020, 08:39:55 AM
We've lost a child- delivered stillborn, gone through a career change, job changes, school, and constant chaos in our family

That is a lot to go through. I'm so sorry for your loss, and trying to manage so much stress and grief with a partner who struggles to manage emotions is hard, to say the least.

I'm so sick of the lies and manipulation. 

What are some of the things going on?