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Title: 30 yr dewly dx'd daughter with BPD sheltering in place since Feb w/Husband & I Post by: purpleplum on July 22, 2020, 01:54:04 PM Am getting impatient with daughter's not "doing anything", falling into old behaviors with her re: us talking to her without checking that she's in a "wise mind"...Giving her a car, new tires, no confirmed job on the near horizon...She's upstairs,in her own space (we didn't plan on her being here when we moved into this rental house in January) with her 3 cats
We (my husband & I) want to know how/when to address getting her out of here, at least daily? (She goes nowhere, won't socialize, has no friends here, and has unlimited time to feel poopy about herself.. Unable to "encourage" her in any way; we try to live a "normal" life (what a joke with Covid, myself not knowing anyone here, and my husband working fulltime (thankfully)in our home, too! Thank God I have a "Zen" room that I insisted on while we were looking last year... Help! Want advice, helpful comments, resources? We currently live in Southern California, San Diego. Thanks. |