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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: 2cats on July 25, 2020, 07:55:14 PM



Title: How to handle when they escalate
Post by: 2cats on July 25, 2020, 07:55:14 PM
My child is having meltdowns daily and I lose it and say the wrong things every time. What are some suggestions to help me with this


Title: Re: How to handle when they escalate
Post by: wendydarling on July 26, 2020, 10:34:07 AM
Hi 2cats and welcome  :hi:

That's a tough situation you're in, dealing with daily meltdowns is challenging and exhausting, it's easy to react rather than respond in a way that helps a move from dysregulating to baseline. How to improve our relationship with our child using communication tools and lessons can be found here HOW TO GET THE MOST OUT OF THIS SITE   (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=331689.0)

2cats can you give a bit of background, how old is your child, have you engaged with professional help? Understanding some details can help members engage and provide support.

I'm glad you found us, you are not alone.  :hug:

WDx