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Title: She is using her diagnosis to justify things she does not want to do. Post by: BlackBear87 on August 08, 2020, 05:50:09 AM After years of unpredictable behaviour which escalated during lockdown, my daughter has just started therapy and been told she has BPD. I am reeling with how to support her. She is using her diagnosis to justify things she does not want to do. Any advice?
Title: Re: Just joined Post by: Swimmy55 on August 09, 2020, 10:57:25 AM Welcome!
This is great news that she is willing to go to therapy! Is she an adult or a minor child? ~For now read up on all you can with BPD and this forum is a good place to start. Look through the drop down menus. You can also click onto anyone's name here to read their past posts / get back stories. ~Realize this will be an ongoing process with her, and there will be no one easy fix. So patience is key. ~ As you are able, can you give more info re: what she is justifying? We can maybe give some ideas for you putting boundaries in place. Keep coming back! |