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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Harmony0122 on August 18, 2020, 09:54:07 AM



Title: Rages
Post by: Harmony0122 on August 18, 2020, 09:54:07 AM
my husband is raging at me every 3 days. I am beside myself. He blames me. Makes false accusations.  Sees impossible to reason with him. It feels like he hates me. He will say sorry eventually, but the behavior will happen again. The rages at me really began 6 years ago when i was pregnant. He has gotten worse. Lies and cheats.  He jas bewn diagnosed with a "mood disorder " but dwliee he jas it amd doeant keep up with meds. I dont know what to do.


Title: Re: Rages
Post by: pursuingJoy on August 18, 2020, 12:44:10 PM
Harmony, this is a safe place. We get it.  :hug: I've been in your shoes and it can really eat away at your soul. You're worth loving and cherishing, and his rages are coming from anger or hurt inside of his that has not been addressed. In time, and with work, you can come back to a place of peace and feeling centered.  :hug:

What triggered your husband's anger last time and how do you respond? What kind of mood disorder was your husband diagnosed with?

There is hope.  :heart: