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Title: How to have an ultimatum without stating it. Post by: Djkla on September 06, 2020, 05:40:33 AM Im in a Christian marriage with a wife who has solid BPD traits. She’s high functioning, great when she’s good and a horror when “the dark side”takes over. She hints that she knows she’s got a mental/emotional issue.
10 years together. We’ve made love successfully one time two years ago. Have been through 3 counselors and she keeps quitting before major progress. Does “homework” only at beginning then abandons. Facts: She is: Asian, 57, a cervical cancer survivor, refuses to take HRT for any consistent period. Her Faith is strong when she’s in a healthy mind. Wants to move again. She’s very bright. We get along as friends when things are going well. Non-user. I am: 100% faithful, very youthful and virile 65, patient, non-user of any kind. My highest priority is for her to experience true Joy in her life. I don’t know how to get her to see someone to get a diagnosis so she can be treated in the way that’s best for her. Thanks for reading. |